Do you think you don't bring anything special to the world? Think again!

As with so many other weight loss clients, I have an individual who has a problem, which seems to be a growing epidemic in our society today. His self-esteem is at an all-time low. She feels that she “just exists in this world.” She says, “There is nothing special about me. I have nothing to offer.”

This type of thinking is not conducive to achieving or maintaining weight loss. In fact, it is poisonous. I asked him to describe the way he lived his life every day. Also, throughout your life, what did you think your passions were and how did you feel you contributed to humanity.

He paused and thought twice about his earlier statements. She began to realize that although she might feel depressed on this specific date and time, everything she does creates something that contributes, even in some way, to the world around her.

I believe that each of us is on this earth for a reason. No matter what your spiritual belief is, it is important to remember that each of us brings talents, individuality, and values ​​that enhance our society. However, unless we acknowledge ourselves with these blessings, we will continue on a downward spiral of perpetual and negative self-talk. This negative self-talk will continue to sabotage our self-esteem and, in turn, our ability to keep our new bodies healthy.

We’ve all heard the quote, “practice random kindness and mindless acts of beauty. ” After pondering the meaning, most of us have a warm and fuzzy feeling. More importantly, if we put these simple gestures into practice, they can bring significant positive change, not only to humanity, but also to ourselves. These positive changes towards others can redirect our energies to make the right decisions for us.

Welcome to the beginning of the new “you”! Think about it. How would it feel to challenge yourself to smile at every person you come across today? Consider how you could light up this world with just this little gesture of kindness. Think how rewarding it would feel to bring this little gift to so many people, not to mention how you are bringing light within yourself.

I would like you to take two minutes to think about something that happens in your daily life. How it not only affects others, but also honors you. Consider everyone around you: your partner, your children, your neighbors, your business colleagues, your fellow congregations, etc.

Remember that you have the opportunity to move mountains with a single action. You can do the simple gesture of sitting and listening to a friend or opening the door for someone in a store. Another option might be to pay attention to your child who has just come home from school and ask what happened during the day.

Our society moves very fast. In fact, so quickly that we forget to stop and think about our gift of life: that we live together on this earth. We have the option of living our days with gratitude for the life around us, or we can become so entrenched with our cell phones, iPods, and computers, that we forget the gifts of camaraderie.

For so long we have felt so bad about ourselves physically that practicing these actions will create a better sense of ourselves and, in turn, increase our overall well-being. Simply developing self-esteem through these positive habits helps us make smarter decisions that result in more effective weight loss for us.

Now, think about what you might be taking for granted right now. Are there those little gestures of kindness that you could be giving to the world that can make your life more special? How could these gestures make you feel better about “you” and even more determined to take care of yourself emotionally?

Reflect on the idea that what you put into the world comes back to you “ten times.”

Imagine if every day you implemented a little good in your world. I’m sure it will change your day, not to mention your life. However, it is up to you to make the conscious shift to this new pattern on a daily basis.

Are you ready to make the change in your world? Are you ready to embrace the new “you”?

Copyright © 2006 Jeff Cadwell Positive Coaching

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